Valentine love

So much talk about love these days, and yet it seems in many ways we are as far away from being in love with life and each other as we can be. The idea that love conquers all is not a new one, and yet we seem to feel that this is a new time in history where we are being asked to live and forgive, let go and let flow and lay down the battle sword for a time of peace on Earth.

At what point do we actually take responsibility for our own actions, reactions and attractions that are making up the energy we live in. Who knew that learning to love OURSELVES was the greatest challenge of all. We seem to feel it is easier to turn our focus on others to experience love and yet through those events, we end up being rejected or hurt in so many ways.

What I have learned through my own experience and soul journey is that - you cannot give what you do not have. In other words, until I perfect the ability to love myself unconditionally through all moments and challenges that I create, I cannot and will not be able to love anyone the way they deserve to be loved; UNCONDITIONALLY.

So here we all are seeking something outside of ourselves that we will never find, while we avoid the one source that is the only source we truly have. Our own heart holds the keys and the clues to our happiness. When we follow our own heart - we find the answers and the opportunities to love ourselves no matter what.

We need the most love when we are broken, hurt, feeling rejected or unaccepted. So why is it in these moments, we are less willing to allow love to enter in and heal the wounds? We start looking for someone, or something to treat the wound with that will only give us temporary relief.

Would you reject a child in need? Would you deny a child the right to comfort, shelter, compassion or care? Would you walk away when they are in a place of hurting or suffering? So then ask yourself this important question: Why do I do that to myself? Why do I think that I can only be 'fixed' or 'rescued' by others?

The truth is we are the source of our own supply. We have the power to attract solutions, answers, supplies, provisions, comfort, caring and love that we need exactly as we require it. Learning to take responsibility is part of our soul contract and agreement that is now being completed. It is actually part of our conscious creation development.